Hello there!! The best thing you can do to get any quality information, isn't to ask, it's to dive in head first and just start reading. The first few months, when i started reading forums, i wouldn't post anything less maybe introducing myself. After getting a very thorough understanding of the rules, all of the things i was looking for, it was then i was comfortable with posting, sharing my experiences and information. One thing you'll learn here is our family isn't savvy to giving hand outs. The majority of us came on here needing a 'right now' way of seeking out the purposes of reason for coming here, and unfortunately, that's just not how it works. The best way you can find yourself getting all of the information you desire is to put in the time and effort and read.
I can't tell you how many nights i've stayed up until midnight to sunrise just reading ONE specific thread regarding a particular story, vendor, topic; Sometimes reading through 200+ pages and spending an entire night reading!! After spending hundreds of hours learning and not leaning for help, i find myself knowing and having in my pocket all of the information i desire, and it's at that point you'll come on here for pleasure as much as you would do to seek out needed info. It's all here, you just have to take the time and patience and put in a little bit of effort, and have fun while you're doing it! Follow the lead i took, and well, if you're like me, you'll find DBG your home away from home! This is my night time get-a-way. Make it yours, and just read and read.
Cheers!