Proving I've Changed.

CatintheHat said:
I am head over heels in love. Just sayin.....lol! With an Otter. My Otter.
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No one else knew my nickname until now! But I  /default_wub.png you even though you accidentally told everyone. /default_smile.png We all make mistakes. Really though, is it an otter, or is your main squeeze called Otter? As far as unusual nicknames for loved ones, I called my wife Turtle. It's been a long time and I can't recall what  the reason behind it was, but she was "my precious Turtle" of all things.

And  mrwiggums, I'm happy to hear you are moving on. After being played by a few women myself it was just my gut feeling the same thing was happening to you. Unless you did things much worse than what you indicated here you did enough to make anyone who felt the same way towards you forgive and forget. IDK about you but I'm forgiving, to a fault for most people, and given the transgressions you indicated your actions should have been enough for someone that really cared about you. There will always be a place in your heart for B, but that hole should be filled by someone else if you are lucky enough to find one. If you are a such a good person to have recognized and admitted you had faults, then took steps to fix them and tried to make things work but she wasn't willing to maybe it just wasn't meant to be.

IME being in love is one of the best things that can happen to a person, but it can also be the worst. Ask people who really know about the two of you for their honest thoughts and take it to heart. Obviously everyone here wants the best for you, but without knowing the real people all we can do offer generalized opinions based on your story. I'm not saying you aren't being honest, to the contrary really. You've been honest about the problems you had and what you did to correct them. But it takes people who know the both of you, in real life, and how you were as a couple to know what the situation was and if it was in you and hers best interest to try and salvage the relationship.

As always, best wishes and good luck.

 
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Lol well I've always said if you only know half of the story, or one persons side then you know about 30% of the truth. Because no matter how honest one is, they're always biased and opinionated. Well I don't remember exactly what I said but I was drinking acting a fool, would never hit her or any woman though. Just went out a lot instead of being with her. And she was in a sort of same situation as I am now. She moved there for school then soon dropped out and I was the only person she knew. And things were great for a while but I think I started getting worried because she didn't work didn't leave never made friends never tried really. I'm not sure why I started going out instead of being home with her or going places with her. But I don't think I was getting played she never since we broke up again has told me anything to the contrary that we could make it work. She isn't like that she wouldn't do anything like that. I just well I thought maybe when we talked again a few weeks ago that maybe something was left to salvage. And there is no one up here who knows both of us or really how we were to talk to about that. And yeah I'm not waiting. She's changed and isn't the same person I fell in love with anyway. And yeah being in love is both wonderfully amazing and terrifying, and it is also painful. Sometimes more than others depending on who you fall in love with. But can't always help who you fall in love with.

 
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And yes I am forgiving to a fault. I have forgiven women who cheated on me. And forgave people who have stolen from me and all kinds of stuff. I believe people are capable of amazing things but don't always make the best choices

 
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