I agree bro...I was new to it all. The thought crossed my mind early this summer to go online in search of something new. I'm bored and just sitting here anyway I thought. So of course I looked into another relationship first...I've been married for 25 years and well no I'll stick with the one I got...I'm not so bored I want to end up sleeping in my truck. In late July it finally dawned on me what I really wanted. I needed some spice on my green corn. I screwed around with online dox for a week or two until I realized there must be other people that want the same thing I do, but their getting it. Maybe I should ask them I thought. After a half hour of googling with that train of thought I came across this site. I can tell you from recent experience that the best help your going to get is yourself reading, reading and reading...it never stops. First you have to read to learn how it works and how to avoid being scammed, then you have to keep reading to keep yourself updated. From the time the thought crossed my mind till the time I had it in my hands was less than 45 days...I want to personally thank the members, mods and admin of DBG for all your hard work that made it easy for me...all I had to do was read.