Hi srb0909,
I recall reading some of your post.
I really can't help with changing the name because I never tried it myself except I remember seeing that option somewhere in my profile your my settings, so I think it's possible but I never tried so I can't confirm that it works. As a matter a fact I am afraid I have imagined (bad week).
Anyways if you really need more help with it you can PM me and I will play my settings to see how to get back to that option and if I you can change.
Welcome aboard.
unknown1212