I am not new to this I got a new username/email to prevent scams My point is no matter who gets hacked the vendor never has to pay, just the buyer
Read up on the thread that Gracie pointed you to. It will explain most of what’s been happening with scammers using misleading Display Names or very close email addresses to mimic real vendors and to trick individuals into sending them $$.
No vendor’s email has been “hacked” AFAIK. Whether or not your email was “hacked”, only you can know for certain (in reality your password was likely phished).
Unfortunately, the only person who can keep you from being scammed is YOU.
No one on DBG, or any other platform, can stop you from conversing with a scammer. All we can do as a community is to give each other warnings and helpful tips to identify red flags that are almost always utilized by a scammer.
There’s also things you can do to minimize the chances of a scammer knowing your email address like you mentioned. But at the end of the day, it’s our responsibility to do our own due diligence before sending $ to another person.
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Ok I'm going to help this conversation, BIG C has been a DBG friend for years as we share a love of The Crow. As was pointed out Big C knows DBG, just looks new in the effort to avoid scammers and is low on meds and was never much of a talker.
(Oh and C, I am ROFL as Yes some people should stay out of things and not give advice, that person is everywhere and they never truly leave an actual review)
Gracie & Mamma you are both very kind. Thank you for trying to give a bit of simple encouragement. I'm always trying to keep feelings and opinions to a minimum, try to stick to facts.
So I know C is low on meds and having trouble explaining, we had a chat after we used the same vendor who gave our money to scammers, can't quite agree that is all our fault, before that C got a new username here and new encrypted emails after the first scammers slipped into the email right at the end of a transaction with A FALSE BTC ADDRESS and the actual vendor was not paid. C's super careful, as am I I gotta say Mamma you got some great points but we couldn't stop a vendor from giving scammers our money after he got requests for refunds FROM THEM.
HE didn't do his homework, didn't check with us as mine was basically Hi I am paying, I paid, sent details on the order, reciept, and he claims five minutes later he gets an email that it was a mistake and I want a refund. Seriously? He had 2 email addys, didn't use the MAIN ONE and he says it was brief and so am I. There's alot more obvious mistakes etc, the biggest order I'd ever placed with him and now he has customers getting requests from his email asking if they wan to order.
Due to a long hospital stay from a cluster f*ck of all the wrong meds, I was away & unaware, until the right meds were given for injuries from the Coast Guard 20 years ago And then a driver not seeing my man and I on a Beautiful, Custom Harley 15 years ago, So I've had to do the constant search for reliable meds. I hadn't been on here for awhile I had an awesome vendor who didn't take new customers,
then I had a good doc for a bit who had to go on leave with Terminal Cancer, then I get this young jerk who I can tell does not want to write my list of controlled substances. He said you don't really need this many every month do you, and I am blunt so I screwed up and said "No but I fill them and stock up because of the current witch hunt and new regulations, you never know"
He looked shocked, he was maybe 25. He said I'm cutting the amounts in half. Such an idiot I had to explain my head injuries gave me terrible seizures if I did not take that amount of benzo medicine as prescribed. I was like and I'm sure you know withdrawals from the Benzo/Seizure Meds would give me other seizures. (He even wanted to give me less Lidocaine Patches!!) It was bad enuf I was on the same dosage for 15 years, cause "Oh My it's addictive" (eye roll) and I had been on them everyday for over 20yrs. So like hint doc, read my file!!
The previous doc had to explain The Stronger Benzo, the X bars were to try to put me to sleep when I got
horrific Migraines, Migraines that are/were so bad that there are over 10 areas in my brain that are damaged from the migraines over the years. And the pain puts my BP thru the roof, A Neurologist I had for a bit would give me Morphine tablets. These worked better for my migraines than my other pain meds,The only "cure" was to sleep. I stocked those Morphine tablets up too. And I had taken one of those tablets a month or so prior to getting my new doc.
Being on controlled substances I had to take my pee drug tests and my original doc ignored the Morphine that showed up in my tests once in awhile despite it being a 2 year old prescription, she didn't care that I'd saved some. It seems they should be happier you weren't abusing them.
For instance I took Kpins 3 times a day for Seizures, I can NOT fill the prescription until the day before I am going to run out. And they can't transfer the script. So if I didn't have extra meds I wouldn't be able to travel or go camping if it was the day I was going to need my refill for my seizure meds. Sorry I had to share. No last minute plans if it's near refill day. It's all ridiculous.
So my next visit my new doc says he can't write my scripts because I broke my contract I had 2 controlled substance violations One with that previous drug test and "abusing" meds by getting refills when I wasn't out of the meds. And the idiot I have 20 years on a Benzo he suggests 2 mild seizure meds that didn't work for me, it was in my file. I was like I'll get the Benzo's from my Neurologist, he's VERY experienced. And I couldn't help saying "you may save lives, but I was younger than you when I DID save lives but I risked my own life to do it" I'm not normally cocky but....
So not being on here for awhile I came back on and it didn't take long to lose a couple thousand dollars to scams. So I got careful and used various vendors with no issue until the refund thing. I only have the vendors explanation.
Being Careful I've sent DM's to Vendor's on here to double check..I have precautions and they can take them also. A couple on here have great systems to eliminate scams. I wanted to help Big C to explain and also kinda get past the thinking that it's just a new member? Experienced and used to always be helpful but now Big C won't even leave reviews to prevent scams. And much more, The Point being made on scams it was partly a statement about a Vendor having to being held accountable for their actions. Sort of a comparison Back in the day if a shipment was seized it was just part of doing business this way
and most vendors would re-ship at least half. A lot of the Vendors did not practice enough stealth and I feel that the customer shouldn't be alone in that loss of meds and money. I feel as Big C does, this is not just a customer being sloppy so Oh Well they are just Screwed with Ongoing Scams, Vendors need to step up also. Take Care All I did keep my long explanation mostly facts. I've seen a lot of opinions we need more solutions. Peace!