The metaphors alone in all your posts are priceless. I have the giggles now, thank you very muchNothing has ever stopped me from being ready, willing and able. Some stuff just prevents me from firing my bullets for some reason. No matter what I've done, even to the point of being sore, it just won't happen when taking some stuff. SSRI meds were the first, but I've noticed zolps seem to have the same effect. It doesn't stop me from being ready and willing, but no matter how long or hard I try the delivery won't happen.
I'm happily cursed with a good ability to go at it, just as much now as when in high school. Not being able to reach the point of no return is frustrating for both parties from what the ladies have told me. They seem to feel as though they are not enticing, for want of a better word.Those who take the time to read my posts should know I'm practically "addicted to love". It isn't false bravado said by a person trying to look like a big man on campus, so to speak. Watching my home made videos it's clear that when things are okay I'm good for 2-3 minutes. That's after spending what ever time it takes to make her happy, because if she isn't happy I'm not going to be either. I guess her pleasure is my aphrodisiac. My experience has shown ladies can have the same problem with chemicals. After changing
them what normally would take a few minutes has been a chore, and then I can only guess the job was well done.
On the other hand, pun intended, (which doesn't work on certain meds either) going through WDs makes things totally different. I've choked the chicken enough to pull the skin off in that case. According to my GF it's the same for her, so I can only guess most people are like that.
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interesting to know either way. Unfortunately if I want to be happy it seems I can't enjoy certain chemicals that make me happy too. Aside from the PKs, which I must use, I'd rather enjoy the company first then the meds later. I can take the chemicals most any time, playing with the cat is a different story. /default_sad.png I need a cat that lives here, but the only ones I know already drive me crazy with all their needs. If only I could take care of things on my own and still be happy....
Tram definitely prevents the "crossing of the finish line". You can easily get really close to the finish line but you cant cross it, which is doubly frustrating.I find the ones that make urination hard mess with orgasms too namely Tramadol.
Sorry I missed it earlier Cat, but glad I made you laugh. I try not to be offensive or too graphic when possible, unlike the first page, where BB posted. I appreciated the candidness though.The metaphors alone in all your posts are priceless. I have the giggles now, thank you very much
Lol, yes indeedy! I gave talked to a couple of guy friends about this and got the same response from both. That "raising the curtain" was not a problem, but the "grand finale" was a problem. A comment was made that this was great for his girl though. One of the guys is on 150mg effexor er, and one is on paxil...he didnt know the strength. No ED, just no "come to jesus" moment. I think i just blasphemed. OopsSorry I missed it earlier Cat, but glad I made you laugh. I try not to be offensive or too graphic when possible, unlike the first page, where BB posted. I appreciated the candidness though.
Which after reading it again reminds me that nobody answered the ED question. We're all friends and very few people actually know other members so if anybody takes those, or "know a friend" who does, please answer the question about whether they inhibit satisfaction. I had never heard it mentioned as a possibility until BB posted (about #10 on this thread) how guys couldn't reach the end zone when using them. After thinking about the warnings on the commercials, "See a doctor for a stiffy lasting over 4 hours..." it makes sense. I'm just hoping those guys got their "jollies" before going to the doctor. I'm also happy to have made enough friends willing to play doctor when I need them, "A friend in need is a friend indeed."
Hawk,SSRIs can make it take so long that when you pull it out it looks like a red hot fire place poker
Jeeze, I'm glad I never had to act like a train and pull out on time. /default_ohmy.png If I were you I'd check my heritage for... get ready Cat, heres one off the top of my head you may enjoy ... "Cocker Spanish" /default_wink.pngSSRIs can make it take so long that when you pull it out it looks like a red hot fire place poker
thanks love, I am back on them at a MUCH lower dose than I ever was. Hopefully, one day, I will get off and stay off of them completely.That answers the question I asked on the other thread. Having been too busy to stay on top of things around here recently I had no idea you were going through tram WD. 14 days and still twitchy, I'm sorry to hear that. The end of all the wd symptoms should be close my friend. A LOT of people have said they wouldn't wish tram WD on an enemy. I would have suggested trying an SSRI for a few days to try and prevent the zaps, but you must be near the end of the agony.
I'm proud of you, it takes a strong person to do what you did so keep being a happy girl, you deserve it.
You are ONE OF A KIND!Jeeze, I'm glad I never had to act like a train and pull out on time. /default_ohmy.png If I were you I'd check my heritage for... get ready Cat, heres one off the top of my head you may enjoy ... "Cocker Spanish" /default_wink.png
Well, while on the topic, I find a multi-O lady almost the only type that I enjoy being with. For me a ladies pleasure is what makes me enjoy the experience. But starting from the "midtown" area I do what I can to make her happy, which is when she typically pulls me up so we both get a simultaneous smile, groan, scratch or scream.To follow the thread:
SSRI's kill my libido and make it impossible for me to orgasm.
I'm usually a multi-O woman.
There, now you know my secrets.......does this mean I have to kill you?
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THANKFUL THIS IS ON WEB (where people say anything) & NOT IN PERSON
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I don't need a kidney......thanks anyway LOL Always good to know. ha ha ha haWell, while on the topic, I find a multi-O lady almost the only type that I enjoy being with. For me a ladies pleasure is what makes me enjoy the experience. But starting from the "midtown" area I do what I can to make her happy, which is when she typically pulls me up so we both get a simultaneous smile, groan, scratch or scream.
Sorry my lovely BFF, but I can only give you a +1. When things get right with your claim move closer and I'll let you judge my technique of trying to give +2s, at a minimum.
And for anyone concerned I'm not trying to prostitute myself to her, this skinny bull donates his milk to ladies who want it. I couldn't enjoy it otherwise. And it's not given to any lady that asks, there has to be some chemistry or I'm not interested. Denise and I have established a bit of chemistry since talking to her the last few months, she knows I /default_wub.png her and would treat her as good as a financially struggling man could treat a lady. Not as well as she deserves as monetary things go, but emotionally I'd give her my heart. J/K, she has that already, but I'd donate a kidney if I could.
XX Sweetheart, along with wishing you the best with your WC bs. Lubya dear, H~T
By she I meant "they", don't get the idea I've been fortunate enough to meet someone so gorgeous.
Wait. The keyboard is "on your gal's back"?? LOL. Er... So... Uh... Yeah. That is a good woman you got there. And maybe TMI. Haha! This whole thread is kinda crazy. HT and Denise's whole on-board love affair was kinda crazy, actually.I'd give a longer answer ... but I'm using the wireless keyboard on my gals back & the batteries are getting hot after 3 hours ...
I guess after the opiates /default_smile.png/default_ohmy.png/default_wink.png