Anybody Here, Single And In Their 30's?

I think being single ain't bad after all!
Your intentions are in the right place starting this thread! There's nothing to apologize or be embarrassed about. I've talked and texted with many members over the years - though no personal meet and greets. There are a lot of amazing people, mostly normal and some a bit off kilter - it's hard to tell from any online forum who's legit and who's full of shit.

After all, life is about personal exchanges and meaningful connections - and as we enter our 30's and 40's it's difficult to forge new relationships or friendships. Your heart is in the right place!

My offer to meet up for a girl's brunch still stands!! It would be nice to have such an intelligent and outgoing friend, like you dear Allhoney!

Hugs from Georgia!

Bloom

 
Your intentions are in the right place starting this thread! There's nothing to apologize or be embarrassed about. I've talked and texted with many members over the years - though no personal meet and greets. There are a lot of amazing people, mostly normal and some a bit off kilter - it's hard to tell from any online forum who's legit and who's full of shit.

After all, life is about personal exchanges and meaningful connections - and as we enter our 30's and 40's it's difficult to forge new relationships or friendships. Your heart is in the right place!

My offer to meet up for a girl's brunch still stands!! It would be nice to have such an intelligent and outgoing friend, like you dear Allhoney!

Hugs from Georgia!

Bloom
Bloom you are the best. You live up to your name. It definitely fits you. I'm still taking you up on that offer. There's lots of great places around here to hang out at. We will have a blast.....and so true about harder to make friends and establish relationships as you get older.
 
Guys! Bisko and SBB! No no no no no! Stop! This is not Topix! Please! No fighting! I dont want to have to spank you both!

 
@brisko

LMFAO. Thanks for the laugh today!!!!!

Now that was funny . Tht was your own post

Ahhhhhhh Haaa

 
I told my girlfriend that I was single again yesterday. She didn't like that haha. I am pretty far away from GA though. Did pass through it years ago all the same

 
I am Truly Sorry SBB,your a great person for this community.Please forgive my reactions,It all went outta place and too far ,SORRY Again hope this helps.

BbJoJo

 
Holy crap!..

All this fighting from just talking about meeting up!!? God only knows what would happen if you lot did meet up. It would be like a porno version of platoon! : )

At least when it all calms down, you could all get a commemorative tattoo courtesy of Biskobro !? : )...

~P~

 
Hey, I lurk around the 404! You should all keep an eye out for me... en route to aisle three! No, seriously, watch the fuck out.

 
OH MY GAWD!

I created a Match.com account a couple weeks ago...I had lot's of "views" and about a dozen Match emails - some guys were okay, some were "eh." I texted with a couple of them and immediately picked up the wrong vibe. Profiles that were filled with humorous content gave way to negative texts - kind of like mild anger/defensive comments. Which was just weird and left me feeling disengaged.

So anyway. This one guy, who kept stringing me along (trust me - I'm not the type to be "put on hold") - with texts such as, "What are your plans this Sunday?" I'd respond - and receive no response back. Texts about getting together - that just never worked out. We talked on the phone, and 7-minutes into the conversation he "had to let me go." He seemed to have this limited capacity to communicate or commit (to getting together) - but seemed like a sweet, rather distracted man. Alas, never married , no kids and in his late 40's.....So last night he sent me a text about 6:00P to ask what I was doing - to which I replied I was listening to Ed Sheeran, sitting by the fire and drinking wine. He jokingly asked for an invitation...and literally two hours later after a phone call and a few "are you serious" text messages the guy arrives at my home with his fucking dog (I have two dogs and two cats - but it all worked out, except for his terrier mix dog growling constantly at my 12-year old Lab). Who, by the way, has instinctive/intuitive feelings about most animals/humans...and sat beside the guy the ENTIRE time. My Lab has severe hip dysphasia and it's very difficult for him to sit....so that should've been my first clue.

Anyway, I offered him a beverage - as I was still sipping my wine, but he had brought a can of Croix Water and was happy with that. He sat on the couch - and complained about being tired and achy from a 30-mile run. Which I acknowledged, but proceeded to make conversational starters like, "Does your family live in Georgia?" "What are your plans for Christmas?" And so on. Anyway, the guy keeps complaining about being achy, especially in his upper thighs - and It's been like 10-minutes since he arrived. I know where he's going with this - I'm just not connecting. And he's sitting on my couch with his legs spread apart in the "my balls are so huge I can't cross my legs" position. So I'm trying to flirt a little, thinking - God - I just want to get laid. I asked him his age, and he said "62" (he was joking - and I laughed). But then he started acting weird.

It was like, I hadn't hopped on his lap in the first fifteen minutes we had met - and he summed me up as a woman who would not quickly ride a saddle. And due to being tired and achy from his a 30-mile run, I assume he wanted fast and furious, not flirtatious and fun.

So he abruptly stands up. Calls his dog's name (who was laying by my feet) - and without so much as a goodbye walked out my front door. I had to follow him because both my Labs followed him and I needed to keep them tethered. It was so bizarre! As I was holding my two dogs by the collar on the front porch, he turned to me and said, "I just wanted to see your tits."

While holding 160lbs of dog, I calmly called back, "It was nice to meet one of your personalities."

And retreated inside for more Ed Sheeran, a warm fire and Chardonnay!

 
Interesting story. Unfortunately it's more or less the norm when you meet people online. I've got so many stories like yours. Dating life sucks!

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OH MY GAWD!

I created a Match.com account a couple weeks ago...I had lot's of "views" and about a dozen Match emails - some guys were okay, some were "eh." I texted with a couple of them and immediately picked up the wrong vibe. Profiles that were filled with humorous content gave way to negative texts - kind of like mild anger/defensive comments. Which was just weird and left me feeling disengaged.

So anyway. This one guy, who kept stringing me along (trust me - I'm not the type to be "put on hold") - with texts such as, "What are your plans this Sunday?" I'd respond - and receive no response back. Texts about getting together - that just never worked out. We talked on the phone, and 7-minutes into the conversation he "had to let me go." He seemed to have this limited capacity to communicate or commit (to getting together) - but seemed like a sweet, rather distracted man. Alas, never married , no kids and in his late 40's.....So last night he sent me a text about 6:00P to ask what I was doing - to which I replied I was listening to Ed Sheeran, sitting by the fire and drinking wine. He jokingly asked for an invitation...and literally two hours later after a phone call and a few "are you serious" text messages the guy arrives at my home with his fucking dog (I have two dogs and two cats - but it all worked out, except for his terrier mix dog growling constantly at my 12-year old Lab). Who, by the way, has instinctive/intuitive feelings about most animals/humans...and sat beside the guy the ENTIRE time. My Lab has severe hip dysphasia and it's very difficult for him to sit....so that should've been my first clue.

Anyway, I offered him a beverage - as I was still sipping my wine, but he had brought a can of Croix Water and was happy with that. He sat on the couch - and complained about being tired and achy from a 30-mile run. Which I acknowledged, but proceeded to make conversational starters like, "Does your family live in Georgia?" "What are your plans for Christmas?" And so on. Anyway, the guy keeps complaining about being achy, especially in his upper thighs - and It's been like 10-minutes since he arrived. I know where he's going with this - I'm just not connecting. And he's sitting on my couch with his legs spread apart in the "my balls are so huge I can't cross my legs" position. So I'm trying to flirt a little, thinking - God - I just want to get laid. I asked him his age, and he said "62" (he was joking - and I laughed). But then he started acting weird.

It was like, I hadn't hopped on his lap in the first fifteen minutes we had met - and he summed me up as a woman who would not quickly ride a saddle. And due to being tired and achy from his a 30-mile run, I assume he wanted fast and furious, not flirtatious and fun.

So he abruptly stands up. Calls his dog's name (who was laying by my feet) - and without so much as a goodbye walked out my front door. I had to follow him because both my Labs followed him and I needed to keep them tethered. It was so bizarre! As I was holding my two dogs by the collar on the front porch, he turned to me and said, "I just wanted to see your tits."

While holding 160lbs of dog, I calmly called back, "It was nice to meet one of your personalities."

And retreated inside for more Ed Sheeran, a warm fire and Chardonnay!
Wow if he didn't:

Bring his dog

bitch the whole time

Act like a jackass the whole time.

Ya both could have got some!!

 
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  1. xenxra @ xenxra: @WTF7218 it may as well be that way with how little effort some of the people on here make to find information that's exactly where you would expect it to be.
  2. ontovzik @ ontovzik: When I had long term shingles, lasting two months. All he could give me was a 10 day supply of dilaudid. He looked at the ground while we were talking about it. I could tell he was ashamed but it was the legislature and the governor that tied his hands. He was very upset that non-medical political people, the media, and the scared public were controlling how he treated his patients. Someday those people will need meds and a hospital bed and they will be gone.
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  4. ontovzik @ ontovzik: He peed it in the snow in my backyard.
  5. WTF7218 @ WTF7218: @xenxra 😆😂. Yes, but only a few brave souls will ever find the number. You must first order a Dirty Shirley from the bartender. Then you must discreetly take the cocktail napkin from under your drink and unfold it. There you will find the map to the location of the phone number, and clues to decipher the code that it is written in.
  6. xenxra @ xenxra: he left his phone number scribbled in a stall at the pub three blocks down
  7. N @ NYStateofMind: @Alkazar I would try one of those easy online ones .. reddit gives useful info about that
  8. Alkazar @ Alkazar: @NYStateofMind I dont really have a history of abusing things, my docotr is just really stingy. I am thinking of switching.
  9. C @ Cheesus: Thanks xenxra
  10. xenxra @ xenxra: @Cheesus yeah, use snote
  11. P @ psychedpsych: Trump is cracking down….
  12. P @ psychedpsych: Hackers are the scum of the earth
  13. N @ NYStateofMind: so it was easy bc of my history
  14. N @ NYStateofMind: I didnt really tell him but he knew I needed a new script since my dr went to jail
  15. N @ NYStateofMind: @xenxra I was on Adderall since 15 years ago so my dr prescribed that w no problems and then when I lost my best friend my doctor rxed the valiums but
  16. C @ Cheesus: Temp.pm down for anyone else?
  17. xenxra @ xenxra: @NYStateofMind my doctor's have always been pretty open minded if i can actually come in and explain the pharmacological action of the drugs im seeking instead of just telling them why i think i should be prescribed. the only time it didn't work out for me is when i was trying pharmaceuticals for depression ten years ago and suggested they let me try testosterone instead (turns out i was hypogonadal so they made a mistake denying my request at face value)
  18. T @ Testisthebest: Even down here in Florida when the pill mill docs all switched over to Suboxone and/or retired you can still find some pretty liberal docs but you gotta know what to look for. Mine does "pain management, detox, anxiety,etc. And no insurance. My doc writes me 60 5mg Valium, 14 2mg Xanax and asked if I had ever tried adderal to get more focus at work as I told him I run my own business.
  19. N @ NYStateofMind: @Alkazar do they know your history? Like I dont tell my doctor anything about myself except what they need to know,...I was able to get my dr to rx the highest dose of adderall along with valiums ..... if they dont know your history or there is no history I would just come out and ask what is the reason for their mistreatment.... they have no problem billing your insurance or taking a payment for the visit
  20. T @ Turbo259: @Layne_Cobain Thank you fam
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