Jewy's Angels - A Place For Classy Dames

holymoly said:
Where's the penis?
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Classy Dames one and all, sultry sirens the lot:  /default_wub.png  I would probably not use those exact words, but that's the message.  It's actually kinder when dealing with difficult people to leave no wriggle room.  Don't rise to any bait.  If you really do want out...get out.  Don't half ass.  Don't justify.  Times too precious. Life's too short.  /default_wink.png

Damn 008, you're the worst (&*&^^%) that ever drew breath.

Exactly right.  You DO understand then. 

Old players never die.  They just go undercover.  I'm fixing to cook blackened fish with red rice & beans.   /default_ph34r.png  /default_cool.png

 
I will be more specific soon, but WOW pretty much covers it for now.

What an amazing group of individuals I proudly call my friends.

Forever thankful, more so than words can express!

With Sincere thanks,

Beranda

 
Well, the Burt Reynolds pic shows no penis.  Then the quote thing doesn't work, so just the "where's the penis" didn't quite seem normal without the pic.

 
Try a different browser for quote function                                              

 
Just want to say, this is fairly common in life, IMHO.  That said, you have made up your mind, you intend to move on end of story.  Yet I am gathering the other person does not know this is coming.  Being straightforward and honest, yet brief and not inviting debate as it is a done decision would be the way I would handle it.  I equate it in a way to having to fire an employee for some reason.  This person I believe is owed a brief explanation, without a rebuttal and then you cut the cord and move on.  Just my 37 1/2 cents.  S-

 
Beranda said:
Ladies of Wings and Halos (and heavenly men, if any wish to comment)

I would like to ask for your thoughts, humor or just general support.

No answer is too short or long and nothing you share will be discounted.

I may one day go into greater detail, if there seems to be some reason to muster up the energy to do so, however, at this stage, I am in the 'investigate-tress' phase 

How do you know when an existing friendship with another female can no longer continue?

Once you have made up your own mind to sever ties, what is a respectful way to convey this decision to the other person, ESPECIALLY when the other person of said friendship, does not wish to be 'unfriended' and will more than likely ask WHY and WHEN you arrived at this decision?

I feel that I have passed the point of having a 'discussion' about my decision, as it seems that in doing so, I would be communicating an interest to move beyond my the past, in an attempt to start fresh or start over...for which I do not.

I am a kind, forgiving human, one who is well aware of her own flaws and short-comings, but as I age, I find it only in sound judgement, that my own well-being and that of my family, must precede the needs and wants of others.  I do not befriend others to gain reciprocation of that which I invest, however, at some point one has to be honest with themselves about the amount of negativity he or she wants to invite and willingly (even passively) accept in their lives.

I never like to make enemies, but in order to be truthful to myself, I must proceed with this decision...even though I feel certain that sharing this decision, will cause the other person to be hurt and confused.

I have observed over time that the combination of these two emotions has resulted in some very unlady-like behavior from this female.

I guess you only are enemies, if both parties agree to participate in some type of 'war', which I refuse to partake in...but I'll just say it...

I'm skeered  /default_unsure.png

So, there you have it.

You can share a past experience that you think would shed light on my own or just your opinion...it is all useful, valuable information to me.

And...just so there's no misunderstandings, this female has absolutely nothing to do with this community.  

Didn't think anyone would actually question this, but I felt it only appropriate for me to state the fact.

Thank you kind and angelic ones, 

Angel of Peace and a little Spice  /default_wink.png
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Beranda - 

I have been in your exact position and it isn't pleasant.  I wish that I had great advice for you of how to walk away from this friend, yet I do not.  I've tried to sever ties with a certain friend who was 'toxic' and crazy negative - only for this friend to return, asking for another chance at our friendship - twice.  The 'breakups' were messy and this friend did react unlady-like...and I was a fool to accept the friendship again, thinking that it would be any different.  

I almost think that the 'fade to black' approach might be the best way to go - this way, the friend might feel like they were part of the reason in which you do not speak anymore.  

I am so sorry for you and the situation that you are in, I know how difficult it can be, my friend.  I will tell you this...when you do separate yourself from this toxic friend, your life becomes so much easier.  It is like a load off of your shoulders.  Their problems no longer feel like your problems, your life becomes your own again.  

Let me know if you need anything, pal.  

Dorothy

 
Well what do you think ladies of a pix of Jewy, Hooter H-berg  and 99 DGSB ....That would be interesting..... Well since Burts up there why not add some other hotties Just a suggestion...

KK

 
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I put my pic up when the whole "post your real pic thing" came up.  No one else did, so I took it down.  Someone claimed to have resizing issues, lol.  Not naming any names, Cat.... oops.  /default_tongue.png

 
DGSB0708 said:
I put my pic up when the whole "post your real pic thing" came up. No one else did, so I took it down. Someone claimed to have resizing issues, lol. Not naming any names, Cat.... oops. /default_tongue.png
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Dang, I think I missed that. Boo.

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