Beranda
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It is my hope that this thread topic will receive a great deal of attention and support.
I invite and encourage EVERYONE reading this, to participate, share and help in any way, so as to shine a bright light on a matter that is not only close to my heart as a woman, but one that is extremely important for everyone who is participating in online communities and communication.
This world is full of greatness, amazing people and invaluable communities to be affiliated with. Not so many years ago, if one wanted to meet new people, there was only one way to do it…leave the confines of your own home and start introducing yourself to perfect strangers. Of course it wasn’t quite that simple, but in contrast to today’s online, web-based world, in the past, who you met was generally in direct correlation to the distance you traveled from your home.
Today we can ‘meet’ anyone online and in many cases, we never even see the faces of our new “friendsâ€, let alone confirm who they are and verify that what they have told us is the truth. For those of us who give trust freely, we run the greatest risk of being duped. Goodness IS rewarded in life, but it can also be an open and friendly invitation to dangerous people who can sense an opportunity and can quickly manipulate their way into your life with the very intention of doing you harm.
Every one of us has a story (likely chapters of them). We have all faced challenges, emerged wiser, maybe a bit worn and weathered, but these experiences define us. In sharing these stories, we are sharing ourselves. Finding others with similar stories can be comforting and we tend to draw strength from the confirmation that we are not alone, others have struggled as we have. Unfortunately, predators ALSO like to tell stories, especially to those of us who are the greatest listeners.
I want to caution everyone that this thread is not intended to be a place where anyone be made to feel foolish or regret. I feel certain that each of us has at one time or another fallen victim to a scam, a liar or worse. We all stand to gain a great deal of wisdom not only from one another, but more importantly from reflecting on our experiences.
I mention these reminders, not to shame anyone, rather to empower each of us in protecting ourselves, thereby avoiding, or at the very least, minimizing uncomfortable or dangerous predicaments.
I am addressing the ladies, but in all honesty, EVEYONE can and should take measures to keep themselves safe at all times!
These are not always as obvious or as easy to keep in the forefront of our minds, but whenever possible, airing on the side of extreme caution is best. Sharing personal emails, phone numbers, physical addresses, full names, specific personal/physical data and ‘selfies’ or self portraits, should all be handled with extreme caution IF AT ALL.
It is not rude to withhold these from anyone, in fact if someone implies as such…RUN, don’t walk away immediately in the opposite direction and don’t look back!
Stay safe everyone. I look forward to your input.
Respectfully,
Beranda
I invite and encourage EVERYONE reading this, to participate, share and help in any way, so as to shine a bright light on a matter that is not only close to my heart as a woman, but one that is extremely important for everyone who is participating in online communities and communication.
This world is full of greatness, amazing people and invaluable communities to be affiliated with. Not so many years ago, if one wanted to meet new people, there was only one way to do it…leave the confines of your own home and start introducing yourself to perfect strangers. Of course it wasn’t quite that simple, but in contrast to today’s online, web-based world, in the past, who you met was generally in direct correlation to the distance you traveled from your home.
Today we can ‘meet’ anyone online and in many cases, we never even see the faces of our new “friendsâ€, let alone confirm who they are and verify that what they have told us is the truth. For those of us who give trust freely, we run the greatest risk of being duped. Goodness IS rewarded in life, but it can also be an open and friendly invitation to dangerous people who can sense an opportunity and can quickly manipulate their way into your life with the very intention of doing you harm.
Every one of us has a story (likely chapters of them). We have all faced challenges, emerged wiser, maybe a bit worn and weathered, but these experiences define us. In sharing these stories, we are sharing ourselves. Finding others with similar stories can be comforting and we tend to draw strength from the confirmation that we are not alone, others have struggled as we have. Unfortunately, predators ALSO like to tell stories, especially to those of us who are the greatest listeners.
I want to caution everyone that this thread is not intended to be a place where anyone be made to feel foolish or regret. I feel certain that each of us has at one time or another fallen victim to a scam, a liar or worse. We all stand to gain a great deal of wisdom not only from one another, but more importantly from reflecting on our experiences.
I mention these reminders, not to shame anyone, rather to empower each of us in protecting ourselves, thereby avoiding, or at the very least, minimizing uncomfortable or dangerous predicaments.
I am addressing the ladies, but in all honesty, EVEYONE can and should take measures to keep themselves safe at all times!
These are not always as obvious or as easy to keep in the forefront of our minds, but whenever possible, airing on the side of extreme caution is best. Sharing personal emails, phone numbers, physical addresses, full names, specific personal/physical data and ‘selfies’ or self portraits, should all be handled with extreme caution IF AT ALL.
It is not rude to withhold these from anyone, in fact if someone implies as such…RUN, don’t walk away immediately in the opposite direction and don’t look back!
Stay safe everyone. I look forward to your input.
Respectfully,
Beranda