Men, Dating And Sex?

You sure you even want a man Allhoney75?

Maybe this thread will change your mind.

 
You sure you even want a man Allhoney75?

Maybe this thread will change your mind.
I'm having second thoughts......being alone with a few gadgets here and there might not be too bad after all. I mean, I won't have to worry about em going back to exes and all....B-) lol

 
And 8 stone posable ladies too, I believe?... Warm them up in a hot bath for 30 minutes and your good to go?

Or so I've heard?..

**coughs**
Ya don't say! Lol.....Isn't something similar happening in Japan? Like nobody is dating. They are basically staying at home playing with all these gadgets we have today. I read this somewhere. I'll have to find it. I remember thinking, the US won't be far behind. I mean porn is at our fingertips, sexual gadgets are everywhere, nobody seems to want anything serious anymore, you damn near don't have to step out of the house for anything so we are getting there. Damn.....I knew I should have been born in the 50s!

 
I'll get to work on this right now............lol. Funny you mentioned dildos. I'll have to find the article but In saw on someone's facebook about life sized male mannequins with detachable peenies. They supposedly feel like the real thing. It was the craziest thing I've read in a long while.
Thank you, everyone, for your feedback. The choice I made was to not have an affair and focus on my sexless marriage. Not to be gross, but as far as dildos and such, sometimes there is a scratch that a SuperRabbitTurbo2000 can't itch. I'll just keep scratching and focus on my family, because family always come first.

Why, oh why can't life be perfect and we can indulge ourselves without consequence? :-/

Xoxo to all.

 
I know that itch! I amnot really one for "toys" and I have suffered terribly for loooooong periods of time.

Turbo 2000?

 
Thank you, everyone, for your feedback. The choice I made was to not have an affair and focus on my sexless marriage. Not to be gross, but as far as dildos and such, sometimes there is a scratch that a SuperRabbitTurbo2000 can't itch. I'll just keep scratching and focus on my family, because family always come first.

Why, oh why can't life be perfect and we can indulge ourselves without consequence? :-/

Xoxo to all.
Thanks for getting back to us polygraph, a tough situation you are in there, and tough decision to be made.
 
Poly, I'm glad to hear of your decision and I'm hoping things will get better with your husband.  I know you live in a small town but is there a possibility for couples counseling?  If only the communication could improve it would lead the way for other things improving as well.  Your husband needs to know that it is most definitely not the natural course in a marriage and your needs are important.

 
Thought I would offer some good relationship advice for our DBG guys...

Encourage her to pluck her facial hair by making fun of it!

LOL!

Happy April Fools Day!

Bloom

 
Two year old son spits water on the floor. Wife, "We don't spit. If it's in our mouth we swallow it." Husband raises eyebrows, "wife you STFU."

LOL!

Couldn't resist!

Bloom

 
In my opinion if a guy does not respect your feelings and just wants to have sex with you , tell him to hit thhe road....  A gentleman will wait as long as he had to and for the record the longer you wait the more respect you earn from that person.  There are still some wonderful kind , sincere, classy and respectful men out there so hang in there Allhoney75...... I hope i did not repeat anything someone said.  Just trying to give some advice....

Jesseegurl23

 
Jesse i LOVE your avatar...so pretty! I love flowers and rainbows...lol!

Poly is a great girl and she deserves nothing but respect. Faced with a really HARD decision and coming out on top is difficult and seemingly impossible. She did the right thing for her family. I admire that a LOT.

 
Jesse i LOVE your avatar...so pretty! I love flowers and rainbows...lol!

Poly is a great girl and she deserves nothing but respect. Faced with a really HARD decision and coming out on top is difficult and seemingly impossible. She did the right thing for her family. I admire that a LOT.
I agree 100% Cat, and well done everyone else who contributed also. Hope you are doing okay Polygraph!
 
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From a guy's POV, a lot of women are time wasters and just want dates, free meals or just want to be entertained for nothing. I'm not saying it's cool to always demand sex on the first date, but IME any girl who was genuinely interested in me, we had sex within 4 dates max, sometimes on the first, second, sometimes on the 4th. Then came the relationship. Just because a guy wants sex, it doesn't mean he wants to dump you, men have feelings too. For me, going fast helps to weed out the timewasters. There's the entire male perspective you're missing here. But I still get what you're saying. However, women who want to wait and are not wasting time are rare, so I just don't factor that in.

 
after my 15 yr marriage ended due to my 45 yr old husband couldnt keep his  d*ck in his pants and decided a 19 yr old is better then his wife and kids...

Ithought noway will i ever ever trust a man again...but after being alone for several yrs, getting back up on he dating horse seemed ok. 

I started on the dating site, omg haha what whore mongers the men on there was...hold shit batman....lol

so many first dates, all wanting sex on the first date, um noway jose!!

Then alone came this guy, younger then me and really cute...met him on datng site too.  We had fun connted and he was a gentlman all the way,  Took a but to the sex part and he didnt press me.  Once it dd happen he did say as soon as he saw me he wanted me like right there and then....lol but he waited because we clcked really well/  two yrs later we are now engaged and getting married soon.  So you see there really are good guys out there /default_smile.png

 
hahaha, omg typo!

didnt take a butt to the sex part, it took a while to sex part....gees louis that was a funny typo

 
Sex is a very intimidating thing. Even if you are 100% comfortable with your body, its a really frightening thing to gamble with casually. Or maybe just me. I will wear string bikinis at a beach cuz luckily my kiddo left me no stretch marks but was always terrified like a hunted animal to make a move on a man. Ive always been the prude amongst my more carefree girlfriends. But...once I feel loved and protected and just essentially, cared for- especially by this man that has raised my daughter as his own- sex becomes more of a triathlon.  I once found one..I REPEAT ONE..search on youtube of a porn when I was sick for a week and purposely brought Molly into the sack ;-) to friction the youtube out of him. I never understood until I was finally in my mid 20s that sex is equated to love for men. And he loves me so much that I "luv" him right back. He is almost home from work!! ♥♥ 

 
Same here socilpathicbombeshe..I was the prude i was even called mrs boring in bed by my friends because i viewed sex as something cherish not thrown away to anyone.

 
Same here socilpathicbombeshe..I was the prude i was even called mrs boring in bed by my friends because i viewed sex as something cherish not thrown away to anyone.
Called that by your friends but meanwhile, the boys in high school were probably vying to get at you first. I used to be surprised at how many guys I had slept with that must have slipped my mind....lol..or actually. ..slipped into their imagination. Im super fun once I feel comfortable around someone. Heres a baffling thing to me..casual fellatio??!! Girls who are like, "Oh no! I didnt sleep with him..just sucked blah blah" When I was 17 I was embarrassed to still be a virgin and was asked in a packed room how many guys I had been with...My casual response...not knowing the "norm" ...."Like 30.." Bwahahahaaa. Idiot girl. 

 
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