Hi Jools, Vinny the bull, is adorable, not a word that is associated with the gangster image I guess lol. I love the West Country accents and have relatives there I live in the North of England. Billy was my father's bird he is 21 years old now and will probably outlive me. Dad got Alzhiemers which Billy took advantage of so I started to look after him before dad died. Parrots are complex creatures I have always had a dog by my side and the affection is sort of instant but Billy took awhile to get used to me and sometimes I think he just tolerates me. We have had many adventures together. He took off on a flight around Luton for two days, he eventually saw a man rolling cigarettes from a shiny tobacco tin and Landed on his shoulder, when I lived in Bath he escaped and came down in the middle of the playground of a girls private school while they were excercising! I miss my dad, his favourite book was Joshua Slocums, Sailing Alone Around The World no doubt he would have taken Billy with him.@Heavenlee Dad was an incredible human being. He always passed in good knowledge and was temperate of nature and generous of spirit. He set me up to live a good life but I'm afraid I messed up all on my own. As the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make him drink. I have too much of my mothers volatility in me and have been through anger management and CBT to quell those impulses but, as I am ageing, I am finding more of my dad surfacing and I love it
thank you for your kind comments x
yeh i not far from an arghhh! myself haha lovely part of the world@Marigold I have wanted the African grey since I was a kid. I live in a part of England where Long John silver was based upon and we have an accent that you guys would most definitely call pirate :lol: .
My partner went and brought a newcomer into our house just last week and it's taking me a little time to not be angry with her. I have only had cats and many people only know me as "the cat man" I kinda like it
The new arrival is a Lhasa Apso, a small Tibetan breed. I am more worried for his own safety as the Maine coons are big but they are not nasty by nature. The dog is now named Vinnie the bull AKA the dog father. You can probably tell I am a Sopranos fan and all things gangster. Dad used to tell me that the two books any man could learn everything from were the counte of Monte Cristo by Dumas and The Godfather by Puzo.
The godfather has a cat in his lap in the film's first advert and in its opening scene. Anyway, lovely parrot. I'd love one but I fear this is already becoming a menagerie alfeady.
I've tried to upload little Vinny's photo but with no success
Ok. Introducing Vinny the Bull. AKA the Dogfather. I had to cut the image down so it was smaller. I hope he can handle the Coonies.
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Jools, how old is Vinny and has he been house with other dogs before you got him?@Marigold I've read a fair few stories of African Greys making a run for it. They seem incredibly intelligent creatures but I'm afraid the cats would see him as fair game or I would have one in a heartbeat.
I am having problems with Vinny, we believe he was a take back to the breeder and he just will not do his toilet outside and I seem to think he is marking out what he now believes to be his territory. It's making me reach for meds more often and I know that is a danger sign. It's how I got silently hooked in the first place and I really only want to use when I really can't stop the cogs and when the prednisolone makes me have a steroid rage. Many think that because prednisolone is now on prescription that it doesn't have the side effects of anabolics but it does and, to my shame, I have scared the bejesus out of several Police when I last went into one. I'm not huge but am solid and I am trained in certain ways of controlled violence but I am digressing and it's due to stress and the dog and the chemo + 1gram of prednisolone so apologies for going off track. I am a lunatic in reality but a nice one and a fiercely loyal friend.
Have you any advice to help with this problem please ? I don't want to give up so soon but I've been a cat man all of my life and I am obviously the head of the pride and so am feeling extremely protective towards my cats. I told the Mrs that if Vinny corners Cosmo then Cosmo will hurt him badly, a Maine coon will run if possible but they were put on the navy boats for a reason, killing vermin. Cosmo is an incredibly agile cat and at now 14kg is a lot of cat. I am hating the smell of pee and crap and it lingers after cleaning. I love the little bugger but I cannot allow myself to start taking tranks each time I feel my blood rise. Thanks in advance and apologies for rambling. I tend to calm down after a couple of days post infusion. Nice to meet you
Nikolai he is really beautiful, I love his long ears. I have problems with mobility and some days I find it very hard to care for my old dog and my parrot but my life would be so much harder without them and I make myself do things I probably wouldn't bother to if I didn't have them to look after. They take me outside of myself and are a distraction from the pain.Nikolas said:And here he is PIT my old now cocker 11 year old, the best friend I ever had. I regret to say hat this is the phot when Itied to give him away. I did so because I am sick from M.S but at the end I changed my mind he is here with me now and we are getting old together.
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@Nikolas I suffer with Crohn's and that's bad enough but I also have an extremely rare form of vasculitis called Wegeners granulomatosis and treatment is chemo and more. Please don't give up on a pet that has been with you all of its life. To you they are a part of their world but, to them, you are their entire world. I have times where I can't get out of bed but I guess it easier with cats though we now have the new arrival of Vinny. You would never forgive yourself if you let your companion go. Please do t think I am judging from afar, I habe found that my pets are much nicer and loyal than most people I've met.Nikolas said:And here he is PIT my old now cocker 11 year old, the best friend I ever had. I regret to say hat this is the phot when Itied to give him away. I did so because I am sick from M.S but at the end I changed my mind he is here with me now and we are getting old together.
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@Jools I absolutely love your Maine Coon. He's impressive, majestic even.Two of my little furkids. The small lady is Brianne and she may be small but has a presence that would shame many people. She has catitude.
The big boy is Armorica Viking raider but his pet name is Cosmo. He is now just under 14kg of Maine coon and some people are scared of him but he is the gentlest and lovely pet you could wish for
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