Jewy's Angels - A Place For Classy Dames

CatintheHat said:
How are we supposed to discuss "shaping underwear" if boys sre here? Hm?
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I just found time to read through these posts. Thank you founding "angel(s)" for starting it. I needed a smile, even a laugh...99's popcorn emoticon made me chuckle".

I look forward to contributing when I find some inspiration (e.g., feel like I have something worthwhile to post/add).

Peace out

 
Ms. Beranda...I'm glad your path seems to have worked!  Not a pleasant thing to have to deal with but, certainly, part of life.  You do not need nut jobs in your life and this person sounds like a certified nut job!

Also, I had a nick-name previously but was ...a bit too revealing so I thought this one was sort of smart-ass funny???  It is kinda hard to reply to me.."hey Misery..."

HOOTER I am not using one of them fancie phones...just a regular laptop.  Any thoughts??

 
I liked my other handle So much better but was simply too obvious...too close to my real-life name.

 
And finally, Ms. B I LOVE your posts and it's so nice to have you here.  Your comments are always so well-thought-out and well-written and thoughtful.

Thank you for the help with the quotes but still won't work.  We'll see if Hootie can figure this out!  That's a challenge, my friend.

 
I have a question to all the classy dames here:  for those of you with children, how do you handle when your little boy starts noticing when you are using the bathroom that you have different apparatus then he does?  He tries to stick his hand under my tummy like he's trying to find my pee-pee and now he pushes my shirt up and looks at my boobs rather confused because daddy doesn't have boobs and daddy has a peepee?

I guess at what age do you "shut the door" when you use the bathroom and you have a son?

My angel is only 1 and 1/2 - just want to be the best mommy I can.

 
Misery, you just won the most posts in a row contest!  Former title holder, me!!  lol!!!  I would comment on the Pee pee thing but I have no children.  Nor do I want any.  Good luck!!!!

 
MiseryLuvsCo said:
I have a question to all the classy dames here:  for those of you with children, how do you handle when your little boy starts noticing when you are using the bathroom that you have different apparatus then he does?  He tries to stick his hand under my tummy like he's trying to find my pee-pee and now he pushes my shirt up and looks at my boobs rather confused because daddy doesn't have boobs and daddy has a peepee?

I guess at what age do you "shut the door" when you use the bathroom and you have a son?

My angel is only 1 and 1/2 - just want to be the best mommy I can.
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I still do this and I'm 40...so it all depends on the kid /default_smile.png

 
vineco said:
I just found time to read through these posts. Thank you founding "angel(s)" for starting it. I needed a smile, even a laugh...99's popcorn emoticon made me chuckle".

I look forward to contributing when I find some inspiration (e.g., feel like I have something worthwhile to post/add).

Peace out
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lol 99, you got an actual laugh out of me...which, given the post I just made elsewhere, is not easily done, thanks /default_rolleyes.gif

 
Good GOD someone shut me up!  Sorry didn't mean to hijack the room /default_wacko.png!!  (very embarrassed :-()

 
Misery, word up Sister! Your posts are great! I have had many posts-in-a-row. Lol! It always cracks me up if I go bsck and read....why didnt i just put it all on one post? Anyhoo..........hehehe

 
MiseryLuvsCo said:
I have a question to all the classy dames here: for those of you with children, how do you handle when your little boy starts noticing when you are using the bathroom that you have different apparatus then he does? He tries to stick his hand under my tummy like he's trying to find my pee-pee and now he pushes my shirt up and looks at my boobs rather confused because daddy doesn't have boobs and daddy has a peepee?

I guess at what age do you "shut the door" when you use the bathroom and you have a son?

My angel is only 1 and 1/2 - just want to be the best mommy I can.
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Speaking as a mom of a 3 1/2 year-old girl, I'm not certain that my experience or conduct applies to little boys or any other human being on planet earth.

Having said that, all results will vary tremendously, so far mine have been pretty good.

We have always spoken about private parts using the correct words, & as if they are just another part of the body. As soon as she started school we did have serious-ish conversations with her regarding the importance of her private areas being safe, possible scenarios, etc. for her to imagine a time where she may have to think about her own privacy.

No special language, excessive giggles, shame or avoidance of their mention.

In our house, both my husband and I, shower with my daughter when it is convenient or unless she asks for her own privacy, of course, and typically do not close doors for simple changing.

I have always been a social bathroom user, so unless I'm feeling especially private or sick, my door is open. However, if I close a door, my kid knows to let it be. Don't ask me how I managed to instill in her this exceptions of boundaries, it still surprises me.

What I will say though, is that if she asks or indicates that she would like privacy or retreats to her room, we give her the respect to do so. Oh yeah, every door in our home except master bedroom and bathrooms have clear glass pane doors, so I'm wondering if my daughter believes that "ultimate privacy" equals a clear piece of glass between her and the world...that's ok, she'll figure it out.

We have had many conversations about vaginas and penises and I tell her exactly how it is.

I understand the novelty associated with a nice set of breasts...Misery, please know it has nothing to do with the gender of your child... My daughter is obsessed with nipples and takes major offense to my reminding her that she has her own set and they are NOT located under MY shirt.

If you can stand it and of course only if you're comfortable, being honest, age appropriate, yet brief about the facts.

I have no idea how it plays out later, but my gut tells me that the more elusive and mythical a woman's body is made out to be, the more "Indiana Jones", your little adventurer will want to be.

Just one other thing: I have always had 100% respect for all parents no matter how they choose to communicate with their children, as long as they give them the respect we all deserve. The details about names and scientific specifications...that is as unique as every family. I only share one person's opinion, and frankly, where my daughter is concerned, it's the only one that matters to me. Same goes for you "Miss Miz".

You set the tone and if you're comfortable with your choices, your son will be calmed by your confidence. I find that kids are a lot like dogs, wolves, lions… they can smell a heap of bullshit a mile away. If you are not true to yourself, your son may not understand why, but he will associate your discomfort with his own confusion.

Geez, what a bossy pants, I so hope that I don't get crucified for this post.

Mis Miz, you've got this!

With respect,

B

P.S. How's the nickname?

 
No kids here, so I'm sorry I can't be much help other than to draw on your experience growing up and depending on how you felt that went, do something similar or different.

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Thanks for all the beauty secrets and makeup hints, misery, I tried using kosher salt to exfoliate and damn, my skin is so smooth, loved the Lorac Pro mascara mentioned? Is there a confessional here? Went to sephora the other day and they had these 'miracle line removers that were over $100 to $200.00. I don't shoplift but I did take one of their half used sample bottles, so since it was a sample for everyone to use is this stealing? No need for remarks, just reading what I'm writing I know the answer, a thousand Hail Marys!

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Heavenlee said:
Thanks for all the beauty secrets and makeup hints, misery, I tried using kosher salt to exfoliate and damn, my skin is so smooth, loved the Lorac Pro mascara mentioned? Is there a confessional here? Went to sephora the other day and they had these 'miracle line removers that were over $100 to $200.00. I don't shoplift but I did take one of their half used sample bottles, so since it was a sample for everyone to use is this stealing? No need for remarks, just reading what I'm writing I know the answer, a thousand Hail Marys!

God I love confession. You can basically do whatever you want, and have it removed from your "permanent record"! Lol!

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