Marriage is not what I'd hoped

I am really sorry for bringing it up everyone. Please forgive me. I did not know it involved others.

 
hooter1 said:
 Hang on now, don't involve me in this, that's exactly how rumors get started.   I remember your question, but apparently your conscious got the better of you, because before I could even begin to give some kind of ambiguous answer, you deleted the PM, eliminating my ability to respons at all.  There a few things that were going on with you for a period of time, covering a wide range of issues, my best advise is just pick one.....or ten.  Also the question did not involve a member of this board, if I remember correctly, you wanted advise on how to set youself up as a middle man using our vendors for your "friend",  giving a non member the details of one or more of our vendors, and skimming off the top of their transactions, which you justified by calling it a finders fee.  Either way, you deleted that PM within an hour of posting it.  I'm not going to play the "lets twist the truith a little bit" game.  So it would be great if you either tell the whole truth, or just leave me out of it, I am really not the type of guy you want to call out, using distorted information.  I hold no ill will, or grudges, but let's try not to twist things on me my man.
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So when I was told the ban was due to recent PM's I thought it was probably because of my questions trying to set up the deal while protecting the vendors ID. I wanted to ensure H-man, and did by email, that the vendor had not been compromised. I told h-man that no matter what the offer was for a finders fee that I wouldn't leak details out about a vendors ID. I had to contact you via PM to find out if it was possible because at the time you were the only one who had let it be known you had dealt with him. Obviously it would have been best to make sure the item was in stock, but after checking and finding it wasn't is likely why I deleted the others. That much I recall concerning you, and it was only because you had dealt with the vendor that I was asking about a safe way to do it if possible. 

Sorry for the late reply, but I'd been avoiding the thread and today is the first time I'd read it. 

My apologies for disrupting the thread, y'all can get back on topic now. /default_smile.png

 
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CatintheHat said:
I am really sorry for bringing it up everyone. Please forgive me. I did not know it involved others.
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I'm sorry things got derailed too Cat, how are things going now btw? You still on a low dose tram and with your blind hubby? Have y'all talked about the other one and possibly moving on to live with the other guy? As I said, if your current hubby loves you he should understand and if he does maybe you can help him complete his transition to living independently without needing you. If all turns out well you'll all learn to be friends and happy for each other.

 
Ok, I think by now everyone has spoken their peace.  Let's move on from this mess.

And just a reminder (HT), we are not to discuss or allude to that specific thread (or info contained within), on the open boards.  If you are on, could you please edit the above post, mainly the first paragraph.  I think you know what I mean.

 
Heisenberg said:
Ok, I think by now everyone has spoken their peace.  Let's move on from this mess.

And just a reminder (HT), we are not to discuss or allude to that specific thread (or info contained within), on the open boards.  If you are on, could you please edit the above post, mainly the first paragraph.  I think you know what I mean.
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I couldn't agree more. Let's leave the past where it belongs and move on. As I've said before HT, you have a lot to offer DBG, and have contributed a lot of great things in the past, and I'm confident that will be the case in the future as well. Our mistakes are one of the few things we can truly call our own, and what's important is that we learn and grow from them. With that said, as far as I'm concerned anyway, the matter is closed and need not be spoken of again.

 
Marriage can be one of the finest institutions we know or a crazy house. Marriage to me is like a garden it has to be cultivated or the weeds get in, know what I mean. Now that's not to say every marriage is perfect, in fact I can't think of a single one that is, however, I can clearly think of several that shouldn't have happened and I know of some others that won't make it. I really don't like to comment on other people's situations primarily because whatever decision you make should be a personal decision, yes you can weigh what you read but in all reality you have to listen to your heart. Whatever the outcome you're the person that has to live with it, not me, not us! I know guilt it a terrible thing to carry around. I carry guilt from my younger years, not from cheating, nor anything like that but how I treated certain people and how I it hurt them at the time. I've made amends over the years but some things will never be the same. That's the guilt I carry and think about every now and then, what if? Well it's kind of like jumping off a cliff once started and done, can't be retracted! Now jumping off a cliff may not give you the chance to say I'm sorry later but from my experience it doesn't matter. Hurt is hurt, it can run deep, and it can run long! As I said in a much earlier post if it's worth it and you can be happy with it, then do it, if not, may need to rethink it! Once done, hard to be undone! My last thought for today as it is now time for that wonderful hot shower I need and work that I'd rather not do!

 
A marriage takes a lot of work and compromise.. It is not easy and you always need to work at it...My view..May I also add be honest with your partner,  If it is not working anymore then go what you need to do.  Then start over. What matters is that you both are happy...Everyone deserves tobe happy /default_smile.png

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                                            God

                                           Love

                                         Great Spirit

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                                     /                        

                                   /                          

                               Me                            Wife

The closer we draw toward divinity, the closer we draw together.  It is my carefully considered opinion that there are not a lot of "Men" in the world.

The Alpha male wolf is a perfect example.  Iron fisted rule but with a lot of wiggle room for puppies and growing wolves in the family.  He lays down with his belly full and the puppies climb all over him, biting, scratching him, pulling his ears and tail, but danger scents, and with one growl, he's on all 4, ruff up like a porcupine, fangs bared and all the young'uns are into the den.  Not only would he kill to feed and protect them, he would die for them as well. 

It's a force of nature; of spirit if you will that attracts people over time.  I'm not the stud I was 30 years ago.  I'm still the big dawg dad though.  I make it very clear what I want. I back that up with LOVE.  Hell I delivered & saved the live of my daughter.  Who's gonna come between that?

I have spoken.

 
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