Men, Dating And Sex?

[trevor]

Awwwwww see how Otters have kind eyes

? Thats why I call him that. Well there IS one other reason. Hehe

Let me guess cat....... the otter is taller lying down than standing up? Hehe

 

[Allhoney75]

That's too funny! AFF love match. I used to be embarrassed to say "we met in a bar". We always have to go through a few dicks to find a good man. Cat just took it literally.

A few dicks....................now this made me lol.......Because one dick just ain't enough! Yep......I took Kratom earlier..........it never fails!!

 

[yellowbelly]

You ladies like to take your girlfriends, to the restroom at the bar, and have a long conversation like you're having a tea party....You go into a guys restroom at the bar, and not a word is said...If something is said, it is usually a one liner.,,"This must be where all the cocks hang out".. is a common one..Or, "Fuck, someone blew the ass end out of that toilet"..."Damn, who pissed all over the floor"...etc

 

[2earls]

You ladies like to take your girlfriends, to the restroom at the bar, and have a long conversation like you're having a tea party....You go into a guys restroom at the bar, and not a word is said...If something is said, it is usually a one liner.,,"This must be where all the cocks hang out".. is a common one..Or, "Fuck, someone blew the ass end out of that toilet"..."Damn, who pissed all over the floor"...etc

Back in the day, the ladies room was the PLACE! Doing lines, talking about the boys, and of course, making ourselves look purty. That should be in the 80s thread

 

[Guest]

Let me guess cat....... the otter is taller lying down than standing up? Hehe

:::::::::/default_blush.gif::::::::::: no, that is not the reason... Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

 

[Guest]

Back in the day, the ladies room was the PLACE! Doing lines, talking about the boys, and of course, making ourselves look purty. That should be in the 80s thread

My lungs are prolly still filled with Aqua Net.

Yeah LOL, snorting shit off of the toilet tank! Lol! GROSS!

 

[rosario422]

Women are wired different than us men ,if you are going out on dates with men ,but do not want a relationship, what do you expect? if i go out with a woman to get to know each other ,but is not serious I`ll be taking about sex on the first date,now that i know what am doing and doing well,women said one thing ,but mean something completely different ,make up your mind so we won`t waste our time 

 

[Bloom]

WWW.youtube.com/watch?v=3VyQZfUkA

Favorite love song!

 

[Guest]

Women are wired different than us men ,if you are going out on dates with men ,but do not want a relationship, what do you expect? if i go out with a woman to get to know each other ,but is not serious I`ll be taking about sex on the first date,now that i know what am doing and doing well,women said one thing ,but mean something completely different ,make up your mind so we won`t waste our time

I dont think it is just women who cannot make up their mind. Women say one thing and mean another? Wow! Do you actually think a date, whether you have sex or not, is a waste of time? Are you ever able to have a good time with humans? I bet you dont get many positive responses saying stuff like that! You may be better off with prostitutes or something. Any decent self-respecting woman would either slap you, or get up and walk out, NEVER to be heard from again. If you are a teenager, you have a lot to learn. If you are an adult, I would take serious stock of your methods. Really.

 

[Allhoney75]

Well folks I'm single again. My new now ex boyfriend's ex-girlfriend stepped back in and begged him to take her back (I'm sure Valentines Day has something to do with it) and so he did. They were together for 2 years and she cheated on him. He told me for the first time yesterday that they had just broken up in September of last year.

I wonder why people bother dating when they know they have unresolved issues with ex's? Oh well, thanks for the support you guys. I guess it's back to the dusty drawing board.

 

[Guest]

Allhoney, you guys had some fun right? so thats good. It wasnt meant to be. With your "credentials" you will have quite a few more to choose from! I can't wait to hear all about them! Xoxoxoxoxo

Chin up, eyes straight ahead!

 

[Allhoney75]

Allhoney, you guys had some fun right? so thats good. It wasnt meant to be. With your "credentials" you will have quite a few more to choose from! I can't wait to hear all about them! Xoxoxoxoxo

Chin up, eyes straight ahead!

Yeah I had fun with him but nothing sexual thank God or this would have been much harder to deal with. Hopefully Mr. Right is around the corner waiting on me to just walk by.....I hope!

 

[PTFC]

Yeah I had fun with him but nothing sexual thank God or this would have been much harder to deal with. Hopefully Mr. Right is around the corner waiting on me to just walk by.....I hope!

Sorry to hear Allhoney, that is such a common thing though, valentines etc. They won't be an item forever again either I bet. Keep patrolling honey, ;-)

 

[Allhoney75]

Sorry to hear Allhoney, that is such a common thing though, valentines etc. They won't be an item forever again either I bet. Keep patrolling honey, ;-)

Yeah I was thinking the same in terms of Valentines...funny thing, two days ago I had a guy contact me back from when I lived in the Midwest. He stood me up on a date and here a year later near Valentines he reaches out to me to tell me he really wants me and that he's sorry for standing me up. I said thanks but no thanks. If ya really wanted me, you would have showed up for the date.

I think people get very emotional around Valentines.....luckily (and sadly) for me, I haven't had that many Valentines in my life so I don't get hit as hard.

Oh well it's back to the old drawing board for me. Beginning to think I should reach out to a guy who is willing to co-parent since I'm climbing in age and there are no prospects.

Thanks for the support guys!

 

[PTFC]

Happy valentines day!(tomorrow)

To

<3 <3 <3Allhoney<3 <3 <3

From PTFC xx

Not quite a card,but it's the thought that counts! :-D

 

[yellowbelly]

Well folks I'm single again. My new now ex boyfriend's ex-girlfriend stepped back in and begged him to take her back (I'm sure Valentines Day has something to do with it) and so he did. They were together for 2 years and she cheated on him. He told me for the first time yesterday that they had just broken up in September of last year.

I wonder why people bother dating when they know they have unresolved issues with ex's? Oh well, thanks for the support you guys. I guess it's back to the dusty drawing board.

Yeah, it's a trip how many people are still attached to their ex's, but are out there dating..I never really noticed this too much, until I got up in my late 30's. The last 3 out of 4 girls that I have been with were attached and eventually went back to an ex. One I cared a lot about, and she ended up moving about 6 months into the relationship. I thought we were getting pretty serious, and than she shut me off like a light switch after she lost her job, and decided to move closer to a major city for a better paying position..She was a speech therapist. The 2nd one I dated for about 4 months, and when I went home for Christmas for a week, I found out she had been hanging with her ex when I was gone. My buddy showed up one morning, while she was in my bed, and handed me a note, that her ex had left on her car that was parked outside my house. The note said something to the effect that he still loved her, and wished they could work things out...She gave me an ultimatum at that point, and I cut her loose..

And..Just last night, I met a girl at a bar..(Yeah, I know) and we ended up going back to her place for a couple hours...I won't fill you in on the details, but things got intimate, and after the fact, she told me that she was involved with another guy, and that he might be stopping by...I was fairly intoxicated, but she was a little more along the lines of shit faced! I was like WTF...and boogied out of there..(I had visions of some dude showing up with a shotgun..lol)

Maybe it's just bad luck, or maybe I shouldn't be shopping at the bar...The last two girls I met came from there..Oh, well...Moving On!! /default_smile.png

 

[Allhoney75]

Happy valentines day!(tomorrow)

To

<3 <3 <3Allhoney<3 <3 <3

From PTFC xx

Not quite a card,but it's the thought that counts! :-D

Awww shucks thanks. I needed that smile! Happy Valentines Day to you as well!

 

[Allhoney75]

Yeah, it's a trip how many people are still attached to their ex's, but are out there dating..I never really noticed this too much, until I got up in my late 30's. The last 3 out of 4 girls that I have been with were attached and eventually went back to an ex. One I cared a lot about, and she ended up moving about 6 months into the relationship. I thought we were getting pretty serious, and than she shut me off like a light switch after she lost her job, and decided to move closer to a major city for a better paying position..She was a speech therapist. The 2nd one I dated for about 4 months, and when I went home for Christmas for a week, I found out she had been hanging with her ex when I was gone. My buddy showed up one morning, while she was in my bed, and handed me a note, that her ex had left on her car that was parked outside my house. The note said something to the effect that he still loved her, and wished they could work things out...She gave me an ultimatum at that point, and I cut her loose..

And..Just last night, I met a girl at a bar..(Yeah, I know) and we ended up going back to her place for a couple hours...I won't fill you in on the details, but things got intimate, and after the fact, she told me that she was involved with another guy, and that he might be stopping by...I was fairly intoxicated, but she was a little more along the lines of shit faced! I was like WTF...and boogied out of there..(I had visions of some dude showing up with a shotgun..lol)

Maybe it's just bad luck, or maybe I shouldn't be shopping at the bar...The last two girls I met came from there..Oh, well...Moving On!! /default_smile.png

I just don't get it........I don't know what's going on in regard to the ex attachment but it's quite common. I guess I'm an anomaly. Once a relationship is over I see no need to even keep my ex's phone number in my phone or call or talk to them. I completely drop all communication but the number of people who still chill and talk to their ex's (no kids involved) just baffles me. And yep, many of them will get involved with you only to return to their ex and hurt you. It's crazy no matter where you try to date. Bar, church, singles groups etc. Oh well...........what can we do. I'm actually toying with the idea of dropping relationships altogether and seeking a guy who is interested in co-parenting. I figure if I've been alone this long, I can manage as the years go by but would love to have kids.

 

[yellowbelly]

I just don't get it........I don't know what's going on in regard to the ex attachment but it's quite common. I guess I'm an anomaly. Once a relationship is over I see no need to even keep my ex's phone number in my phone or call or talk to them. I completely drop all communication but the number of people who still chill and talk to their ex's (no kids involved) just baffles me. And yep, many of them will get involved with you only to return to their ex and hurt you. It's crazy no matter where you try to date. Bar, church, singles groups etc. Oh well...........what can we do. I'm actually toying with the idea of dropping relationships altogether and seeking a guy who is interested in co-parenting. I figure if I've been alone this long, I can manage as the years go by but would love to have kids.

I've learned to wear my heart on my sleeve these days Allhoney...And I fully agree once it is over, it should stay that way...I think so many people are out for a "Rebound" relationship, to ease the pain of a break up, and once the pain eases, it makes it so much easier to go back to an ex...you sound like a cool chick..If I lived near you, I would take you out, just to show you there are still some "good guys" left in the world..Happy V-day to you for whatever that's worth...I hope you find a "keeper"... /default_smile.png -YB

 

[Allhoney75]

I've learned to wear my heart on my sleeve these days Allhoney...And I fully agree once it is over, it should stay that way...I think so many people are out for a "Rebound" relationship, to ease the pain of a break up, and once the pain eases, it makes it so much easier to go back to an ex...you sound like a cool chick..If I lived near you, I would take you out, just to show you there are still some "good guys" left in the world..Happy V-day to you for whatever that's worth...I hope you find a "keeper"... /default_smile.png -YB

Thanks a bunch yellow! I will always believe there are many great guys out there. You sound like one of them. Happy Valentine's Day or as I call it...SAD day.....Singles Awareness Day! Lol