Sorry you feel that way, vent all you need. As far as I'm concerned it's one of the great parts of about this site, you can usually find someone who understands through experience or is at least willing to offer a helping ear so to speak. /default_wink.png
BTW- You had some great posts in here about learning from past experiences, your second marriage, and how you interact with your wife. Very well said- I am glad you have found happiness /default_smile.png
Thanks sugar pants!
IDK Jewy....maybe you have /default_wink.png
99- you are too funny, you seem to always know when I need a laugh or when to send me a nice message- like today. On another note, do you also moonlight as a professional matchmaker??Thanks sugar pants!
I joke a ton but when it comes to relationships I am a BIG fan of loving like it's your last moment together....Think of all the people (just on this board) who abuse drugs because they have been wounded by a parent/spouse or friend. The people we love the most are the ones we hurt the most. The fact that God gave me a 2nd chance and did it with the most wonderful human on the planet is AMAZING to me.
I cherish her everyday....
IDK Jewy....maybe you have /default_wink.png
Don't get me started...I got my high school shop teacher and typing teacher to go out on a date...they married 4 months later...I kept telling them the other was asking about them...I told my shop teacher that my typing teacher told me she wanted him to ask her out...so he did! Once they started dating they figured it out and I got all A's in both classes /default_wink.png
LMAO!! It's like you have special powers! As if the force is with you? You should put that to good use and make some $$$ by telling everyone who they will marry and what their future holds! I suppose we will have to wait and see if the force is with you this time. Jewy has women flocking to him like sheep! I am but only one wooly sheep out of many running around after him!
Ihad a feeling you couldstand on your own two feet and I am very sorry for what you have been going through....I have been divorced twice and the thirdis a charm....Maybe you can set upsome date nites and try to start over?I know this sounds corney but it might help and trytotake your mind off of things for just a minute....I Hoped I little. If you need to vent or talk you are more than welcome to pm me ...Just a suggestion... One more thing open communication is the key....Tell him or at least explain it to him... He might not know what to do to help you...Don't give up....
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xenxra:
step 1 - stack yo bread / step 2 - go to bed
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xenxra:
just keep it one hunna playa, it's really simple
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xenxra:
every day is friday
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xenxra:
@3ak mostly, will prob be gone entirely by end of summer imo
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xenxra:
pretty sure black also went rogue sometime late last year
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Strawhat7:
Yo, whatever happened to Mr. Black? Just got a rando email from him after ghosting me like a year and a half ago
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LW815:
Know what’s really going on in somebody else’s head or how much they’re really dealing with and feel like they’re left with no other options. Been a very sad few days but 2 complete (irl anyway) strangers cared enough about what I was going through to talk to me about it, though they owe me nothing and have no reason to help my personal pain other than the kindness in their own hearts. Just shows that this place is a real community, not just a forum of people who only care about themselves.
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LW815:
Was nodding in/out the entire time writing those shouts and spparently was fully out sending the last one lol. But II find it ‘uplifting’ as two people I’ve never actually met and only know the others online presence through subscriptions, who I have a better chance of getting a handy J from Jesus Christ himself, both were so quick to share their own experience and wise words and assurances that things will look up and not to feel guilty or be mad at somebody for going that route - as you never
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xenxra:
@hotdog45 meh, same difference. they both got blacklisted on here. wouldn't be the first time a rogue shop sent out unsolicited comms after the fact.
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MOD:
Hello @everyone
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LW815:
Own personal experience with this kind of this type kind of situation and sympathized with my pain when I really just needed somebody to talk to. Both went out of their way to help a stranger in a time of need when I really needed somebody, and body to talk to. MM
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LW815:
Sent a simple conf email and I just dropped a ball on them. I really just needed to let it out, didn’t expect them to reply in such a thoughtful way that it drastically changed the rest of my day and mindset for the bette . Above and beyond - and the last night while chatting with another that I knew had at least once one child,, so i wished them a belated happy Father’s Day, which again caused me to spill it all to them and again received the most thoughtful and kind response, as well as their-
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LW815:
They didn’t need to. They could have just continued on with the nature or the main purpose of what the relationship between us is, I didn’t really have anybody else to let it out to at the time and they both went far beyond what I’d expect. Not that I’d assumed they’re cold/A-holes - it was just a lot from somebody who’s technically a competent stranger. A very close friend of mine committed suicide on Father’s Day and iwas emotionally wrecked witih nobody to talk to, and the first author just
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LW815:
@Mokachin0 not really uplifting in the normal sense, but two popular authors on here took the time out of their likely very busy days to not only read my massive walls of text, but both also replied with the most kind, thoughtful and positive responses when I randomly dumped my personal problems into their laps
